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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 23, 2012 5:22:56 GMT -5
Okay I would be like this has never happened to me or anything but honestly I speak from what I am going through on and off now. I trust you guys and know know that no one is gonna find me out Okay have you ever not really liked someone but you have slight feeling for them? And then you are told that they really like you and just because someone teases you you say you don't like them? And then you just end up liking them more but then they are with someone else and happy and you were to nervous and shy to ever speak up? Think that's bad? Listen to this other half, you don't know why the heck you like them! You pretty much hate their personality and how they act but at the same time you get all nervous and shy around them? Also when they actually talk they are smart and you like their options and how they act silly with their friends. What about this one! 17 and never been kissed or had anything close to bf. Funny thing is I don't care! All I need is my horses its just the upper part that gets me all out of whack.
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Post by ••NARLA•• on Apr 23, 2012 14:28:24 GMT -5
I sort of get this. Everyone tells me it's stupid to like the guy i do, and that he's an idiot, a show off and is boasting. I don't see this, and is it because i like him loads, or is it because my friends don't want me to like him? And everyone says he likes me, but i normally don't believe them, because once, i (being stupid) joked about liking soemone else, and then that soemone else got excited, and then had his heart broken, and i felt horrible, and i know i would feel even more alone and worse if it personally happened to me.
So, no sister, your not alone in this topic.
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Post by musicluva789 LOVES KM!!! on Apr 23, 2012 15:40:29 GMT -5
TRUST ME YOU AREN'T ALONE. Haha all I have to say....
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 24, 2012 3:12:24 GMT -5
Yeah I get that Narla that's kinda why I won't tell anyone who knows me for real life about the guy I like cause well part of them would tease me and the other part would make me feel like crap for liking (Not on puprose) its just that my best friend for real like who is also my cousin doesn't like him at all and then my other cousin is his best friend! So he is like always here! And then my other cousin who is also his friend used to tease me about him liking me! I don't know why but there is something about teasing that makes me very defensivence and I don't even know whY! I mean I don't care what anyone thinks of me. But anyway yeah everyone thinks he's an idiot (my best friend cousin) but I think he's funny and I almost always get what he's saying and think its funny or smart. I dunno I just don't see what others see and I don't know if its cause I like him or I just can't get him! Worst thing about this is its been going on for the last three years! And yes Music I know you are there
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Post by ••NARLA•• on Apr 24, 2012 4:03:26 GMT -5
I feel very similar. And it gets so confusing sometimes I want to scream. Everyone doesn't get me for it, and that gets me Ben madder.
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 24, 2012 4:14:45 GMT -5
Yes I deeply understand that Narla! It gets so confusing sometimes I feel like I am gonna explode!!!
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Post by Secret is baaaacckkkk <3 on Apr 24, 2012 17:54:54 GMT -5
Oh yes, EXACT SAME STORY except you know the last part but exact same story exact, but I've known him for awhile been friends with his family for years but yea I hate that
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 25, 2012 1:53:30 GMT -5
Yeah I totally get that Secret!!! My uncle has been friends with his dad since they were young! And my cousins have been best friends with him since they were little!!!! And the worst part of it is I have to see him like every single day in the summer cause he's always here!!! Ugg... I wish someone would let me train their horse so that I could forget about all this! It only comes into my mind when I have nothing to do!!!
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Post by ••NARLA•• on Apr 25, 2012 11:23:00 GMT -5
I tend to try and not think about it.
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Post by Secret is baaaacckkkk <3 on Apr 25, 2012 17:40:38 GMT -5
ugh yea, same with me there KM I always see him at the parties my aunts and uncles have with theirs during summer but seriously exact same story, yea, it sucks big time,
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 26, 2012 2:18:22 GMT -5
Yeah I try to keep my mind off of it as much as I can. Yupp it sure does suck Secret! People always say I'm smart and a very well put together person and I have to think if that's true then how come I can't figure this out! Gawd its hard! I actually started not to like him anymore and then it got to where I was around him for like over an hour every day cause he goes riding with me and my cousin! And I started liking him again! Ugh.... I am so confused about this!!!! Its even more confusing cause I have only ever liked him! So I have nothing to compare it too! I mean I know I like him just not sure how much I really do, ugh... you can write all you want about this stuff in cyber space but as soon as it happens to you you don't have a clue of what to do...
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Post by samini on Apr 26, 2012 14:10:24 GMT -5
I have kinda the same, i like this guy, a LOT but i dont think he likes me at all... he's like best friends wih my best friend and i think he knows i like him but one of his friends likes me and i'm good friends with him but i really dont like him in that way...
how do you know if a guy likes you?
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 26, 2012 18:37:52 GMT -5
Wow that's a sticky spot Samini, I wish I could tell you how to tell but each guy is different. I only know how the guys around here act which inturn lets me know that the guy I like might kinda tiny bit like me or it might wishful thinking but yeah I can't really tell with him if he likes me. So I think its like impossible to actually tell if it wasn't this stuff wouldn't be so d*mn frustrating!!! So I agree with you how the heck do you tell if a guy likes you?!
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Post by ••NARLA•• on Apr 27, 2012 15:51:11 GMT -5
if your english, or probably any nationmality, you'll know the expression : if a boy is horrible to you, he likes you.
but, now we're older, that isn't the case, as we are more mature, and even the boys (hard to believe) can pass for more mature. so, there are other specific ways to tell. my best friend, is a girl, but the strongest friend after that, is a boy. we don't really consider ourselves as friends, as we dont tend to admit it, but we both know it's true. (lol, i know.) we talk the whole time, and, if we have horrible teachers who make us sit boy girl boy girl and such, we generally pick to sit next to each pother. it's nice, because it causes no confusion on anyone thinking be like soemone if we sit next to each pother, but everyone knows we are just friends. yes, this guy might be good looking, but i dont like him.
you probably think that this has nothing to do with finding out or telling if a boy likes you,. but it does, sort of.
if a boy likes you, he will talk about you a lot, rather than talking to you, i can tell that my friend doesn't ;like me, cause he can always stand and talk to my face, where as the guy i know likes my friend, but my friend doesn't know that, he can never stand and look and talk to her, he talks about her with out of his 'mates'. this is something to think about when trying to find out if they like you or not.
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 27, 2012 17:23:52 GMT -5
Yes that is great advice Narla! That is very true! Oh and guys never mature *rolls eyes* I live with 7 of them, but they do tend to talk more about the one they like. But everyone is different in this too. One way to tell I think is if your not looking at him and then you look up and he looks at you and quickly looks away this could be a sign. This happens to be a lot But anyway Narla is right about that! Oh but it also depends on their personality and how shy or nervous they are, guys tend to be a little more straight forward then most of the girls around here. And I know this little tid bit from talking to the guy I like about a story I am writing about a girl in the same exact spot as me, well he said if he liked a girl that was one of his best friends cousin or sister then he would be a flirt and teaser in a brotherly way. Hope that might have helped
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Post by samini on Apr 28, 2012 3:41:10 GMT -5
thanks guys ahaha all boys hate me and are horrible XD quite funny really. All your advice is amazing!
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Post by KM loves MUSIC and PEANUT!!!! on Apr 28, 2012 4:16:08 GMT -5
Haha guys act like jerks to girls cause they know we're smarter! LOL. And we are just doing our jobs as friends posting what we know to help others out Okay I am gonna off topic and say this is why I love you guys so dang much! You are always there me and not just me you guys are always there for EACH other! You all remind what real friends are like!
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Post by samini on Apr 28, 2012 4:56:58 GMT -5
awwww i'm gonna join you on this too I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! <3
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Post by ••NARLA•• on Apr 28, 2012 15:28:59 GMT -5
thats why i wanted to help tyou. because i know how you must feel, and because we all feel so much fvor each other as we are soo close friends
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